Sunday, September 18, 2016

Soaring

I was sitting on my front porch to relax and read, it’s something I enjoy doing. Again today I saw her, circling the neighborhood. I don’t know her name, but I admire her for she is always richly dressed. She wears beautiful shades of brown; tan and burnt umber, ecru and rich gold. And she whistles a nameless song as she travels. I wonder why she does that? I find myself gazing at her and wondering what her story would be. I ponder her habits and I wonder if she is in control of her actions or if she is powerless to change. She is driven by unseen forces of nature, I believe. I know she watches the people who call Blackbottom home. She gazes as smoke trails up from Dairy Cheer filling the air with savory scents. She spies lovers in cars on University Drive, making plans for the future. She whistles as she watches a cat smooth his fur on Burke Avenue. She laughs to herself when a silly yellow dog jumps toward her as she glides through the sky. She is a hawk and she has a nest somewhere in the trees across North Lake Drive near my Uncle Johnny’s house. And the things she does, the habits she has are encoded in her; how to hunt for dinner and how to soar into the thermals and hover for long periods as she watches a mole run for cover. So yes I do believe that for her, she is powerless to change. After all, she isn’t likely to land in my yard to receive the small bits of bread that I toss out to sparrows. She isn’t going to swim down the Big Sandy River and dip her head under or paddle around like a goose. She doesn’t worry when the crows start chasing her; she can easily soar higher and faster than they can. Nor does she fret at the woodpecker as he bangs his head repeatedly into a tree. For she is a hawk, a soaring bird, a huntress. She will teach her young how to whistle and battle and snatch and climb into the wind. And she will stay true to who she is and if you meet her with blood on her feathers, then that’s how it is.
As humans, are we like that? Are we powerless to change? Is it so ingrained in me to be fearful always? Am I destined to perpetually repeat my mistakes? How can I ever learn to eat vegetables at my age and wear high heels, am I a hawk? Will I always be introverted and introspective; can I learn to be a different me? I’ve watched our society go mad in the last few years. We watch the crows and the woodpeckers of our world and we fret and worry about what they do; we do not soar above it. I wonder if we can learn to love one another even though we see fault, even though we do not agree. Is it logical to admire someone who speaks the truth, then bash them for their truth? Are the bits of letters and words and texts and little smiley faces that we expel through the atmosphere real? Have we lost the ability to live in a real world, free of technology as the hawk does? As the moon and the stars and the sun slide through our sky, I pray that I am not like the hawk, that I can find a way to change little by little each day. I hope I can learn to be more open and unafraid and tolerant. As the moon and the stars and the sun slide through our sky, I pray that I am more like the hawk. I hope I can be who I am, unafraid to speak my truth and show who I am. And I hope each day we as humans can grow a little and change and learn to forgive and give each other a little space on the earth.

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Bill Loftus

Bill Loftus

Some people just have Sparkle.  Bill Loftus had sparkle.  His students this week were shocked and saddened to hear of his passing.  I visited an impromptu memorial at his office door today and was moved as I viewed the hallway filled with warm memories and small tokens of appreciation.  His good friend and fellow professor Toufic  Saad recalled to me the support and love Dr. Bill showed him during their years together at Big Sandy.  Toufic said, “He walked by my classroom daily and before he walked to the end of the hallway to enter his classroom, he walked in mine and ask for his ‘Man Hug’. So we hugged often. I am a two-time cancer survivor and he was always there for me, for moral support, uplifting messages and texts, and mostly "Man Hugs".  I am going to miss those the most.”
   Colleagues and students speak often and vigorously about Dr. Bill’s passions in life.  He loved his family, his wife Teresa and his son Balin, more than life itself.   He often spoke of his devotion to his family during class, and students remember the proud look in his eye when he spoke of his son.  He loved his students and he loved helping them to reach their full potential and to see the true wonder of life.  The students who have gathered at his doorway have left messages of hope, and admiration for their professor and friend.   Nathan remarks, "You were a true inspiration" and Amber writes, "Thanks for being one of the coolest dudes I've met."   Tavis speaks of Dr. Bill’s sense of wry humor and wit and his wicked laughter.   He fondly remembers the class as a happy little circle that was “the house of love”.  As his classroom would fill with his students and friends, he would shut the door and cheerfully exclaim, “Good morning, ladies and gentlemen!”
He was a humanitarian who gave freely to others. One of Dr. Bill’s causes was “The Green Dot Initiative”.   This initiative strives to raise awareness that society can reduce violence in our community and on our school campuses.   Dr. Bill was instrumental in bringing the initiative to Big Sandy.  
A rich full life is attained by living fully and freely.  Bill Loftus did just this.  He loved his family and his students.   He loved a great joke, a good game of golf and an ice cold beer.   He loved cool jazz and warm Hersey Kisses.  He dreamed of traveling to Ireland one day.  Dr. Bill was expressive, quirky, funny and deep, everything we should inspire our children to be. 
As I said before, Dr. Bill had Sparkle.  He especially had the paper towel kind of Sparkle.   Dr. Bill, just like many of us, hated hand dryers in restrooms.  A few years back, hand dryers were installed in the bathrooms.   He hated them.  He and his students waged a war against the dryers until finally paper towel dispensers were back living happily in the campus bathrooms. 

As with everything, life continues.   I believe that Dr. Bill would want his friends and students to strive to live life to the fullest.       

Korner Drug History


Korner Drug History

In June 1915 a church was built on the corner of Lake Drive and Court Street and was named Irene Cole Memorial Church.  On a very cold January night in 1942, a terrible fire broke out at the church and the building was destroyed.  My friend and I were in the Abigail Theater, which was next door to the church on Court Street when suddenly the movie was stopped and all were asked to evacuate the theater.   Our little fire department did the very best they could to battle this fire in horrible conditions.   It was so cold that fire hose froze, the water freezing right in the hoses.   The firemen clothes froze stiff while they were still wearing them.   I saw it so I know it is true.  The church was able to build a new building on Front Street and is now the First Baptist Church. 
 The location of the property where the church once stood was a prime location.  Lake Drive, then known as Mayo Trail, connected Paintsville and Pikeville with Prestonsburg being right in the middle.   The bus station stood where Community Trust stands today and the Floyd County Courthouse stood where our new courthouse is.  The town’s only red light was there as was a large filling station which was located where the old First National Bank building still stands.  And the Abigail Theater was right up the street!   A business would be an excellent choice to build on the site. 
   The church property was purchased by Banner Meade and John Allen.  Together they built a two story cream colored brick building.  The first floor consisted originally of three sections and the upper story was sectioned into several rooms.   The corner section of the building's first floor was rented by Fred and Ethel Burke Dickerson.   Fred and Ethel opened a fountain and they named it Fountain Korner.   It quickly became the town's gathering place, a place where you could get a burger and milkshake, magazines and perfumes.   This fountain had a large curved arc front window, from which the comings and goings of everyone in town could be seen.   In the mornings before the sun rose, the business men in town would meet at the Korner.   They would gather for good food and coffee and to play Liar's Poker, a game with dollar bills.  By lunch time, the ladies of Prestonsburg would meet for iced tea and spicy talk, sitting at the tables at the curved window.  In the afternoons my friends and I would gather at the Korner and the tables near that window became favorite seating places of many of us, including me!  We always tried to get a table at the window before going to the movie matinee.   The store was an instant success, opening each day at 5am and closing at 11pm, seven days a week. 
  When my friends and I would go to a movie at the Abigail, which we often did, we would always stop at Fountain Korner to get our Cokes, and then we would buy our popcorn at the movie.   One Sunday evening as we walked up onto the cool diamond patterned front stoop, Ethel was locking the door.   We later learned that Fred had shot and killed James Roark, a former classmate of mine.   In court, the verdict was self- defense.   Neither Fred nor Ethel went back to the store after that.   Ethel eventually went back many years later.  Ethel’s two brothers, Joe and Johnny, had returned from World War II where they served overseas.   Both had found jobs and had married – Joe to Leslie Comstock and Johnny to Helen May – the girls were cousins.  So the couples bought the Korner and went to work.   Soon it really was the place to meet for a friendly welcome and the food was delicious.  (I soon would be joining the fun!)
  In April 1949 their older brother, Hern, returned from Germany after 6 years in the Army.   He had learned photography while in Germany.  He joined his brothers as a full partner.  They each had a shift at the store, morning, afternoon, evening.   They would rotate shifts weekly.  No brothers were closer, each had their job to do and they respected each other’s opinions.  Their oldest brother and his wife, Heber and Minta, both worked at Nunnery Grocery Store where Minta was the manager and Heber was a meat cutter.  He made the best meat loaf!  Each morning all four brothers would gather for  coffee before opening for the day.
  I mentioned my friend earlier – she was Mary Sue Prince Herold.   She was married to a distant cousin of mine and they had two children.  While in the service he decided he wanted a divorce.  Most of our friends and relatives had moved to Ypsilanti Michigan to work at defense plants.  Mary Sue stayed and moved in with her mother who watched her children while she worked.   It also allowed us to go to the movies – that was our favorite thing to do.  In fact it was the only thing to do!
  I was working at Leader Department Store in July 1949 when a customer came in.  His name was Hern Burke and I recognized him as I had known his family since school days.  I spent many nights at their family home in Blackbottom with his sisters Ruby and Goldie.  He had returned home in April after six years in the Army.  He served three years in combat in Europe and two years in Germany.  While in Germany an old man taught him the art of photography.   While talking to him at The Leader I learned that he had seen me coming down the steps at First Methodist Church one Sunday morning and that he had a darkroom in the basement of his mother’s smokehouse.  I was always making pictures, so I was glad to have them developed here instead of mailing them away.    Anyway, we had our first date in July 1949.  It was a date in which we spent no money; we went first to the old Prestonsburg Hospital in West Prestonsburg to see Johnny and Helen’s newborn baby boy  - John Jr.  The date was July 29, 1949. After visiting the new parents at the hospital, we went to the Prestonsburg Drive In, located here in Blackbottom.   The Drive In gave businesses two free passes if they would place an advertising sign in your window.   So we got 2 free passes, we fixed us a Coke at the Korner and popped some corn and Granny and Papaw's house. From then on we were together two to three times a week. 
  Joe was accepted in to the pharmacy school in Cincinnati that fall and he, Leslie and Jeanne moved to Cincinnati.   In October they wanted to come home to see the family, especially his sister Goldie and her family who were visiting from Michigan.   Joe and Leslie had no car and Hern’s new Pontiac had just come in, so we met them at the bus station in Lexington.  I guess that was my proposal, for Hern said, “Let’s get married and have Joe & Leslie be our witnesses.”  We got married in a Methodist parsonage in Mount Sterling on October 7, 1949.  Funny thing is that we kept it a secret, and I’m not sure why, we definitely were old enough.   The week after we married an auction was held of the property from North Lake Drive to the river, the property where we have resided our entire marriage.  Hern had sent his money to his mother while he was in the service so he had enough to buy the 100’ foot lot.  We built the house that I have enjoyed for 64 years.  As I write this, Hern has been gone for 31 years, April, 28, 1983. 
While Joe was gone to pharmacy school, it fell upon Hern and Johnny to keep the store up and running.   Everything was running ok with only two brothers working at the store, until Johnny developed rheumatic fever.   He was admitted to a V.A. hospital in Louisville.  This unfortunately led to Joe having to leave pharmacy school and come back home to resume his tasks at Fountain Korner.  I believe this happened in November 1949.  In the first part of December it was decided that Hern would take Papaw Burke and Helen to Louisville to visit Johnny in the hospital.  Of course without the Mountain Parkway back then, it was a trek of about 7 hours.  Naturally it would be necessary to spend the night so that’s when we told our parents of our marriage.   Neither family wanted us to rent a house, but offered us a place to stay with them while we saved money to build a house on the lot Hern had purchased earlier.  We borrowed $5,000 which paid for the materials.  Hern and our dads built the house.  My brother came home from Cleveland and did the electrical work.   We paid Nelson Baldridge $100.00 to sand the hard wood floors and Bill Holbrook built the chimney.  Soon other houses were being built, and vacant lots were all taken up.  When Joe and Leslie moved back home from Cincinnati, they too moved in with Granny and PaPaw.   They brought with them the first TV set that I have seen and I believe it was the first set in Prestonsburg.   It had two stations out of Huntington and on Saturday nights we would gather together to watch wrestling.  You should have seen PaPaw and his nephew Harry Burke, Harry Robert’s dad, get down in the floor in front of the TV and wrestle! 
  We stayed with Granny and PaPaw Burke the most as PaPaw as wasn’t doing well.  So as my welcome into the Fountain Korner family, I inherited the job of making the potato salad.  Granny had been making it since her sons bought the Fountain.  She helped me with it until we moved into our house.  I was still working at The Leader so I got all the ingredients ready the night before and then mixed the salad dressing before going to work.  I made one to two gallons each week on Mondays and Thursdays.   The recipe was 6-8 pounds of potatoes, pickles, onion, pimento, salad dressing, celery, carrots – no mustard.  And a secret ingredient.   I did this from 1950 to 1985, continuing even after Hern’s passing in 1983. 
  I quit work in November 1952 and became a full time mother on April 2, 1953.  What a beautiful baby girl we had!  She was such a daddy’s girl too!   As she got a little older, I added other duties for the Fountain; I made hot dog sauce and homemade pies.   The chili sauce was 15 pounds of hamburger, gallon of kidney beans, gallon of ketchup, onions and plenty of spices.  Leslie made the famous pimento cheese, no where could you find any better, especially when she could make it with commodity cheese.  I also made 4 homemade pies a week,  a fruit pie and a cream pie, twice a week.  Customers stood in line to get seated at the Fountain.  Later, the GE Store, which occupied the center of the building, closed down.  So the wall was torn down and Fountain Korner was enlarged.  In addition to the fountain, our family added a restaurant at the other end of the building.  The restaurant served hot meals, pinto beans and chicken and dumplings  but it didn’t affect the popularity of Fountain Korner.
  In addition to his duties at Fountain Korner, Hern was also a very popular photographer and he still had his developing to do each Friday.  Eventually he outgrew his mother’s smokehouse basement darkroom and rented a space in the Town Center Building, about where Dr. Hyden’s office used to be.  He had more space and money and was able to buy more equipment.  One item that I was glad to get was a printer.  Every Friday night Hern would bring home all the prints and negatives that he had developed that day.  We would spread 20 – 40 rolls of pictures out on the floor.  We held the film to the light and matched the pictures.  When each roll had matched pictures, I cut the negatives apart, added them up, put them in a photo envelope, priced them and started on the next roll.  We usually finished this task around midnight and I had to go into my job at The Leader at 9am on Saturday morning.  Hern and his brothers still rotated shifts, so some Saturdays it was Hern’s turn to open up at 5 am.  
Hern’s photo reputation increased, so his business grew to include portraits, weddings and accident scenes.  He did several deer shots during hunting season, but he didn’t like that.  He said their eyes seemed to say, “Why would you shoot me?”  But it was a bad part of his profession.
In early December 1956 at about 4 am we got a call that the store was on fire.  Mark Reed, a friend of the brothers, stopped by every morning to get his Lexington paper from the stack left on the front stoop.  He felt the heat of the brick and rushed to the Fire Department.  We had a knowledgeable fire department and upon arrival at the scene they knew to not fling open the doors.  If they had the building would have exploded.  The beloved circular window in the front didn’t even have a crack in it, but the store itself was destroyed.   There was a large display of dolls over the fountain.  Their little faces were melted, they looked so unhappy as they were to be some little girl’s Christmas gift.  The clock beside the dolls melted too.  It hurt to see all the damage.  It was so hot inside the store that the patent medicine tablets such as aspirin disintegrated inside the bottles with the labels shrunken and falling off.  All the beautifully colored lipsticks melted leaving a red waxy trail.  All the display cases and wall cases had to be refinished due to the smoke and water damage.  The insurance company declared nothing could be saved and as they were there inspecting the damage they picked up a Little Golden Book.  Hern said, “I told them my baby had been wanting this book for Christmas.”   The inspector gave the book to Hern.  Della was 3 ½ years old at the time and still has the book.  After the fire, the incoming merchandise was moved over to the photography store in the Town Center Building and the Christmas buying season was salvaged as much as possible.   We were able to keep the bills paid and have Santa come to our children.   They stayed there until the Fountain was able to be used again.  In the aftermath of the fire it was discovered to be arson.   Four Prestonsburg High School boys broke through a small window in the storage room.  They took smaller items, watches being the most expensive.  It amounted to a few hundred dollars.  As they left, they set fire to the wrapping paper.  The paper smoldered but did not burn so that made that part of the clean-up easier, but the smoke odor was so strong and lingered for years.   Thank God for fire insurance!  The guilty ones were found and punished and most of the stolen good were returned.  The Korner had to be redone from top to bottom with new paint and new tile floors.  All the nice wooden cabinets were ruined and had to be refinished, which took some time.  Ackerman's Repair Shop did all the cabinet work.  The barstools were screwed into the floor from the basement ceiling. 
    February 1957.  The historic flood hit Prestonsburg hard.  No one ever dreamed or expected the amount of destruction leveled on the area.  It rained and rained and then more rain, swelling The Big Sandy River and all the streams in Pike and Floyd Counties.   In Prestonsburg the main part of the city began at the corner of Court Street and N. Lake Drive, around the only red light.  Fountain Korner was on the higher side of the street and First National Bank was on the opposite side of the street on a much lower corner.  A large drain was in the middle of the street and it carried out all the water that drained from the hills surrounding the city. Lots of times in the past this drainage system struggled to carry all the water and it often got clogged with debris.  Typically the firemen would wade in and unclogged the debris but this time the flooding was coming from the other side of town, from The Big Sandy and the open sewer lines.   The streets soon began to flood, overflowing businesses and homes.   The First National Bank flooded before Fountain Korner, as the corner where Fountain Korner is was much higher.  Eventually the flood water reached the store, and stretched to the top of the doors and the newly painted walls.  Remember the cabinets that I mentioned from the fire?   Well, they had just been completed and were soon to be delivered back to the store.  In fact, some had already been delivered to Granny and Papaw's house.  So luckily all of those custom cabinets had not been placed back in the store and they were not damaged in the flood.  That would have been a costly repair as we did not have flood insurance.  The waters got in every business on Court Street from the Fountain to Wright Brothers Barber Shop and in the other direction to the Post Office.   It reached Sparks Bus Station and almost to the top of the telephone building.  I got a call from Hern at 4 am.  He and the brothers were at Brother Heber’s store eating bologna and crackers.  They were safe and he told me of the damage uptown.  The phones soon went out and were out for several days.  The brothers could not get home in Blackbottom but they knew we were safe and likewise we knew they were ok.  They had worked furiously to pack up the store and move it upstairs, and they got all the merchandise moved.  The camera store and darkroom across the street wasn’t as fortunate.   They packed up as many cameras as they could and developing supplies into our large car, a Chrysler New Yorker, and brought them here.  As the flood waters rose, I would keep moving that car to keep it and our merchandise safe.  We lost all of our printers and larger items and some photos that belonged to customers.   We lost some recital pictures and sad to say, some wedding photos.  Soon when it was obvious that there was nothing anyone could do, Hern, Joe and Johnny were brought home down Lake Drive in a boat. 
  Hutsinpillar’s Drug was located down the street, about where Clyde Burchett’s Jewelry Store was located.  Around 1960 the third partition of the store was removed and the Burkes bought that section.   They bought Hutch’s Drug Store and moved it in their building on the corner of Court Street and North Lake Drive and renamed the business Fountain Korner Drug.  As an extra bonus from that transaction, we acquired the Fostoria Crystal account which was very popular with the ladies.  At the time a Fostoria cup cost 90 cents and a plate cost $1.50.  The store by this time was a major hub in the flow of life in Prestonsburg. I remember Hutsinpillar as a very kind man and a quiet man and gentleman.  He taught Sunday School at the newly built Community Methodist Church in Blackbottom.  In the 1960's and 70's,  Fountain Korner Drug continued to be a gathering place, a hub of activity and commerce in Prestonsburg.  The time between Thanksgiving and Christmas our little town transformed into a beehive of activity.  Eastern Kentucky folks came to Prestonsburg for their shopping and no trip was complete without a trip to Fountain Korner.  I was at Korner Drug helping dad gear up for the Christmas shopping season.   Early in the fall sales women from Revlon, Max Factor, and Canon Cameras would start to appear to take our Christmas gift giving order.   I believe it was a mix of bravery and insight, so much was at stake!   If you by too much cologne that turns out to be stinky, then you're going to have some expensive alcohol.    Or if you choose stuffed animals that the kids don't connect with, then you've got dirty, dusty teddy bears come spring.  I always helped Ethel unpack the perfume shipments, the gift sets of Jovan Musk and Love's Baby Soft.   The expensive bottles of Chanel No. 5 or No. 2, I wasn't allow to touch those.   Windsong, Charlie, Jean Nate', Cachet were all so popular.  For men I remember Hi Karate, English Leather, Old Spice and Brut.   It was a tedious job, counting to make sure the shipment was correct, then using the price gun to affix the price on each bottle.  One of my favorite jobs was to wrap all the Russell Stover candy that First Commonwealth Bank would buy for their very best customers.   I remember cases stacked upon cases that were just waiting for me to wrap after school in that dusty store room behind the pharmacy. Scissors were always in high demand, and always getting lost.  One day after a long search for scissors dad got a piece of twine and tied them to a post in the pharmacy.   Satisfied, he walked away firm in the knowledge that his prized scissors would never been taken!   Imagine his horror when later he went to look for them and lo and behold; someone had used the scissors to cut the twine.   Laughter filled the store as we watched him storm up to Arrowood's to buy a chain!  Soon the Ambassador Cards shipment would come in.  That was a task!    Each different Christmas card type would have its pre-destined home in the rack, the kid's cards together, the cards for lovers and friends and neighbors, all decorated in reds and greens and vivid blues.  All the racks had to be cleaned and dusted before unpacking the boxes in the week before Thanksgiving.  It was also time to decorate the windows with tinsel and paper.   Dad would give me like 10 bucks and allow me to go "uptown" to purchase tinsel ropes, garland and holly to decorate the tree that we would have in the window.   We always had trouble with the sun pulling the color out of the boxes, so we had to be creative to showcase our items for sale.  We always used Fostoria for the windows and we would rotate the boxes of perfume and cameras in and out of the window to protect the boxes.   The camera department was Hern's domain.   He made all the camera decisions and had to keep all the film, batteries and flash bulbs well stocked for Christmas Eve shoppers.  Eventually Dad and our pharmacist, Burl Whitt, got involved in the camera purchases, especially for the more expensive Canon cameras.  Oh how I wish I had paid attention to all the great photography tips they shared around giant cups of coffee!  Everything you wanted and needed, could be had on Court Street, Prestonsburg Kentucky.    I imagine that some people have fond memories of shopping trips to bigger cities, but not me.
Doc Hutsinpillar retired during the mid 1960's and Cloyd Johnson became our Pharmacist.  I remember Cloyd had a large hump on his back.   Abe Smiley, one of the drug store regulars, would always come back to the pharmacy to visit with Cloyd.  Naturally he would ask how Cloyd got that hump on his back.   Every day Cloyd would tell him the story of being in the war.   He said he was talking too much and swallowed a cannon ball!  Abe would laugh and laugh and then come back the next day to hear the story one more time.  I also remember this story about Abe.   Abe would go to each table with one of the lawyers who hung out at the Korner during lunch.   The lawyer would have a nickel and a dime on his hand and he would ask Abe which one he wanted.   Abe would take the nickel and oh how everyone would laugh and laugh.   One day dad asked Abe why he didn't take the dime, surely he knew that a dime was worth more than the nickel.   Abe quickly said, "If I take the dime, he'll quit doing it!"   So Abe was making 20 or 30 cents a day, enough to buy him a Pepsi a day.   He was a smart cookie, he always said he wished he had Johnny's Cash and Charlie's Pride. 

The pharmacists during the 70's were John Burke Jr. and Burl Whitt and Della and I became pharmacy techs in the late 70's.  What a time we had, most days fluctuated between ball breaking pranks and crazy fast paced work - well fast paced for that time period.   Burl was what I would call an interesting character.   Smart as a whip, keenly curious about the newest invention - computers - Burl was a genius.   Photography was his passion, I wish I knew the things he had forgotten.  John Jr. was the other pharmacist and I had to watch were I walked because he was likely to be practicing karate kicks and jabs in that small space.  

My Life on the Big Sandy River



My Life on the Big Sandy River
I remember a story that my grandfather used to tell me. We had a hump in our backyard, a rather large hump where we had a nice strawberry patch. Papaw would tell me that is where the elephant is buried. “Wait, we had an elephant?” I asked him. He said, “No, we had TWO elephants!” And naturally I believed it. When my dad and his brothers and sisters were little, they lived here on the same property where I live, which is on the banks of the Big Sandy. Boats used the Big Sandy to carry goods from the Ohio River to the people of eastern Kentucky. One day a boat came and the vendor had a piano for sale and boy did my Aunt Ethel dream of playing a piano. Naturally she cried and begged for that piano. So Papaw struck a deal; he would trade one of the elephants for the piano. Papaw’s voice would quiver when he would describe the sadness of loading that elephant onto that boat and the work necessary to hitch that piano to the remaining elephant and guide her up the riverbank. The other elephant did not fare so well after watching her mate floating away down the Big Sandy on a boat, so rather quickly she stopped eating and passed away. And the hump in the backyard where we planted strawberries every year was the elephant grave. Naive as I was, and still am, I believed that tall tale for years. But I do believe that Ethel’s piano was brought down the Big Sandy. That very piano is on display at The May House here in Prestonsburg.
So the Big Sandy River has figured quite large in my life, I’ve lived on it’s banks my whole life. I love to sit on the riverbank as the night turns to day and watch the light filter through the trees. The river gives me many opportunities to photograph the wildlife that survive on its banks.  The riverbank hums to life early in the morning. The birds rustle through the trees looking for breakfast. The woodpeckers begin the day with a laugh as they peck from tree to tree. Currently the Canadian geese are molting their feathers so they are flightless. I see large flotillas of them every day as they search for food for their young which are growing every day. The ghost of the river is the blue heron. Elusive birds, they are the hardest to photograph. They think nothing of silently lifting off and gliding on down river to a quieter place when they see me and my camera. A couple of new residents have eluded my camera; so far. There are wood ducks now on the river, and that is a new find for me. These guys are small, quick, beautiful ducks and so far I have been unsuccessful in photographing them; I’m still trying! A new family has also moved to the banks of the Big Sandy; a doe and her fawn. I’ve seen them a few times early in the morning when it’s still too dark to photograph them. We bought some deer corn and I’m hoping they will begin to trust me.
The river gets angry several times a year as heavy rains cause it to overflow it’s banks. I’ve sat many times and watched small items of people’s lives flow past. Basketballs and tires, dolls and doors have floated passed on the river and it makes me sad to think of a child upriver looking for her baby doll. The river can change from green and serene to brown and violent very quickly.
Rarely I might spy someone sail by in a john boat enjoying a relaxing day on the river fishing. Lately though life on the river is changing. People are finding that kayaking on the river is a challenging and rewarding new hobby. It’s now very common to see kayaks and canoes floating by like a colorful parade. The cities of Prestonsburg and Paintsville are even hosting a Paddlefest every month which offers everyone a chance to try this new exciting hobby. Vendors are even there to rent canoes and kayaks at affordable rates so you can try it out. What an exciting new venture for our area! We are learning to use our resources and inviting the world to come to Prestonsburg and play. It’s so beautiful to see ten or twenty colorful kayaks glide silently under the historic Prestonsburg bridge. It’s a sight that I look forward to every month.
Our river, Big Sandy River, northward flowing is a beautiful asset to our community. Historically Big Sandy allowed our community to grow and develop. Now we can use the river for recreation and we can enjoy it from its banks and in its waters. Take the time to view it for yourself!


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“Number Please...”
On a hot summer day in 1937, 2 beautiful girls adorned in light summer dresses and heels would arrive on Court Street in Prestonsburg to begin their shift for Ma Bell. They would walk up the stairs beside Rose’s Drug Store to the switchboard, the heart of the local phone service and relieve from duty the night shift operator. As the country made the changes from telegraph to telephone, an interesting observation was noted. Historically boys were used for telegraph delivery for their foot speed, but it was soon noticed that men lacked the patience needed to switch calls and their behavior at the switchboard was undesired and crude. So early on women were sought after to become telephone operators. In 1937, Jean Burke was one of those beautiful phone operators and the Prestonsburg exchange of Southern Bell had six of them. And so their long day of interacting with folks from near and far began. “We got 25 cents an hour, I got pretty close to 40 dollars every 2 weeks. I got a beaver coat and I thought I was the fanciest thing ever was. From Spiegel catalog I ordered a bedroom suite and kept it for years.” Jean proudly exclaimed.
“Number please...” Jean and the other operators would answer each call. “Can you call me at 10 o’clock so I can feed my baby?”, a young woman asked one early morning. Jean politely replied, “I’m very busy this morning.” And so the young mother had to seek help elsewhere. “What time does the movie start and what’s playing?”, Jean laughed as she told me that they answered many calls each day such as this. Each operator had a list of numbers and names but since the exchange only had about 200 phones, they rarely had to look a number up. The tricky part was that they had to know all the names of the members of a household, even the children and sometimes even the family dog. And as almost every phone belonged to a party line, operators had to check the ring pattern for each phone. “Some people had two or three short rings and then a long ring, everybody’s was different so the households knew which family should pick up. “Don’t tell, but when we were not busy, we heard some interesting conversations and all for 25 cents an hour!”
Dr. John Archer had his office right across the street, above where Burchett’s Jewelry store was located later. Jean explained, “If a patient needed him and he didn’t answer, often we would look out the window and see him standing on Court Street talking to somebody, so we would holler ‘Dr. John, you got a call!’ and then he would go upstairs and we would hook him up.”
Two operators worked the busy day shift and only one worked the overnight shift. “We had a cot to sleep on during the overnight shift because you would only get one or two calls at night. I was working night shift one night and a call came in and it was from my house. I was afraid something was wrong with mom or dad and I answered and it was the doctor. He had been out on a call and he stopped at my parent’s house, woke them up, used their phone to call and wake me up for me to call and wake his wife up. He wanted to see if he had other emergency calls to tend to before coming home. She told him to come home, you fool!”
Naturally pay phones were on every street corner, in every restaurant and the latest craze. A caller could place a local call for a nickel, a dime or a quarter and receive the number of minutes that coin could buy at the time. The operators had to listen to the sound that each coin made when it hit the tube to determine how much money the caller had deposited. Then the operator had to watch the time manually and interrupt the caller to ask for more coins when they reached their time limit.
In September 1941, dial phones were installed and the last girls to inquire, “Number please” were retired from their duty. Jean used her savings to visit a favorite aunt in Chicago for a few weeks. She elevated in an elevator at Marshall Fields and bought some new clothes and shoes. Jean arrived back home on a Friday in early December 1941 and was listening to the radio that fateful Sunday morning with her family as the first Pearl Harbor reports were aired. The last operators at the Prestonsburg exchange were: supervisor Minnie Hale, Fern Hale, Toots Parsley, Ruth Crabtree, Orb Vaughn and Jean Herald (Burke). As Jean honestly exclaims, “My how times have changed!”


April 11, 2002


April 11, 2002

Seven months after that cloudless bright blue sky day in September when the planes rained down, I had the opportunity to travel to New York City with my sisters and nieces as a last minute stow away. The trip had been planned as girls time in the Big Apple and they had planned for a day of spas and shopping and tickets to a TV show taping. As I was a late addition to the group, I did not have spa reservations or talk show tickets, so me and my companion took a walking trip of the city. My companion was my film camera.
When 9-11 happened my mind shut down. I didn’t want to hear the details; didn’t want to watch the endless replays of horror. I spent the days and weeks afterwards immersed in “The Andy Griffith Show” and “Gilligan’s Island”, the pain of real life was just too much. I remember well the day it happened and the reaction of one patient at the hospital. A young mother called the pre-op department to cancel her son’s tonsillectomy that was scheduled for the next day. As procedure called for I asked why they were cancelling. She answered very quietly, “It’s the end of the world.” It felt like it. Then very quickly, October 13, my life got serious and busy as my husband Don was called to receive the “Gift of Life”, a kidney transplant. So the images of 9-11 were pushed far away to the recesses of my mind.
So on April 11, 2002, we began our happy journey, my first trip, to New York City. Being the only one in the car who had never been to NYC, it was tough to hide my excitement as we crested a hill and for the first time I saw The Statue of Liberty standing tall and bright in the harbor. I was humbled to think of what she means to all of us and I couldn’t wait to see her up close. Soon we approached the Holland Tunnel which carries Interstate 78 under the Hudson River and into Manhattan. Traffic was bumper to bumper in the 2.5 mile tunnel. My mind began to linger on the fact that I was in a tunnel, underwater, and the traffic was at a stand still, but that wasn’t the most disconcerting fact. It soon became obvious that New York City was still a city in turmoil 7 months after 9-11. Throughout the tunnel were soldiers equipped in full combat gear. My mind reeled back to the day, to 9-11.
We arrived at our hotel on West Broadway and I soon realized that we were just a few blocks from Ground Zero and we all agreed we should go there first. I prepared my camera with film but I didn’t prepare my heart for what we would see. Some of the stores close by had just re-opened for business and many had photos on display of the damages they had overcome. The words were flowing from shopkeepers, where they had hidden and how they gotten out of their and back to their homes. The tears were flowing as well. We then walked closer to Ground Zero and were drawn to St. Paul’s Chapel of Trinity. The church, which is the oldest in New York City, was built in 1766 on land donated by Anne, Queen of Great Britain. The church served as a respite area for rescuers and family members for 8 months. Volunteers worked in 12 hour shifts serving meals, making beds, counseling and praying with fire fighters, construction workers and police officers. Massage therapists, chiropractors, podiatrist and even musicians gave their talents to help. The fence around the church became the gathering spot for family members to place impromptu memorials of their loved ones. Officials at the church decided to place panels along the fences to help folks with their memorials. They figured they would need ten; they eventually needed 400 panels. I shot many photographs of the different posters, signs, teddy bears and candles. There were displays from the Louisville Fire Department and a memorial around a bicycle that was still chained to a post. A bicycle messenger had never returned to his ride. I noticed a quietness even in the middle of the largest city in the United States.
We lingered for a long time around that fence. 9-11 wasn’t something I could hide from any more; Andy Griffith couldn’t wash it away. It became real to me that day as I photographed the pleas of many for help in finding their missing love. Since then, I’ve watched every year the history of that day, I’ve immersed myself in it’s tragedy. I don’t want to forget; I don’t want any of us to forget. We can’t forget.


I Get By With a Little Help From My Friends


I Get By With a Little Help From My Friends


The rock group America wrote about a “Horse With No Name” back in the 1970’s. It was also in the 70’s that I became friends with Sherri Allen. Today I got to spend some time with my dear friend from high school and her world champion horse Yuppie Cuppie. We often hear stories of people saving animals. This is a story of a woman saving a horse but it’s also a story of a horse saving a woman.
Prestonsburg High School was where Sherri and I met. Her dad, Floyd B. Allen, was everybody’s favorite science teacher. I think Sherri and I hit it off because we both struggle with shortness. Back then the high school had lockers that were stacked in two’s and we couldn’t reach the top ones. Unlike me though, Sherri was a terrific basketball player, a guard who could shoot and dribble. And boy was she fast! Lately through Facebook we reconnected and I was so impressed to see that as an adult she was an avid horse woman. I saw many photos of her and her beautiful horse who is named of all things Yuppie Cuppie. I also read that she and Cuppie are world champions! I’ve been intrigued to know more about the horse world and about Sherri’s champion Cuppie, so I paid her a visit. Little did I know that there was more to the story of Cuppie, way more than your usual horse story!
Buttercup was her name and she had a family who loved her. The family fell on hard times as a serious medical condition afflicted their son. His condition required lengthy hospital stays in Cincinnati. Money grew tight for the family and Buttercup suffered because of their tragedy. She grew thin and sickly and the family knew that they would be forced to sell her because of their son’s illness.
Sherri was also hit hard by an illness; stomach cancer. She had to have a surgical procedure and a strong chemo drug. Sherri told me of many dark days during her treatments; she was sick, weak and vulnerable. Then one day she found out about Buttercup and her sad existence. And it lit a little spark. Sherri decided to go see this horse and Buttercup looked at Sherri and Sherri looked at Buttercup and she knew that she and Buttercup could help each other. So she made an offer to the family and she took Buttercup to her new home.
After spending some time together, Sherri thought that the horse just didn’t look like a “Buttercup”. The previous family had nicknamed the horse “Cuppie” so Sherri thought, “What rhymes with Cuppie? Yuppie? Yes, Yuppie Cuppie!” And a story began.
Sherri spoke softly about the hard days during that time in her life. There were days that she struggled to rise from her bed.  She was sick from the medication, in pain and she was worried about the future as well. Easily Sherri could have just stayed in bed and allowed the dark thoughts to fill her mind and soul; but instead thoughts of Cuppie would spur her to get up, get out and head to the barn to check on her horse’s progress. So she would go to the barn and spend time with her horse. She would encourage Cuppie to eat, rest and she would brush Cuppie’s long mane. Sherri believes, and I do too, that animals have the ability to calm our souls and restore our bodies. Slowly Sherri and Cuppie both started to get stronger. Soon, probably too soon, Sherri began to ride again. Tentative at first, but with each trip on horseback she felt her life force returning. Soon she put Cuppie through her paces in front of trainers and experts and everyone was impressed with Cuppie’s natural gait and intelligence. After some training sessions with several local experts, a star was born.
In 2013 Sherri took Cuppie to a fun show in Salyersville, just for a test. And she won that event with ease. Soon the competition bug took hold and that summer the awards stacked up. They competed in the Mountain Pleasure World Show later that summer where Sherri and Cuppie won Mountain Pleasure Country Trail World Grand Championship. Since then the titles and awards have mounted reaching the goal of 2015 UMH Breeders Cup Mare and 1st Place Amateur/AOT/Novice Country Trail World Grand Championship. Yuppie Cuppie has also quite a fan following on the show circuit. So much so that Sherri has had t-shirts made with a Yuppie Cuppie cartoon horse, which she gives out to kids during the shows. Life on the summer show circuit can be demanding yet is so rewarding for Sherri and Cuppie. They have formed a strong bond and are a team in competition and in life.
We can learn a lot from Sherri’s example. Life can sometimes kick us in the teeth. It’s up to each of us how we respond to the trials that we face. Life lessons are taught during hard times. The trick is to keep riding through the obstacles in front of us. We can learn a lot from Sherri and Cuppie who have persevered despite illness and are living life to its fullest.